When a person responds emotionally to intellectual things, or emotionally only to traditional emotional things - I find that an interesting break between myself and some other writers and fans.
There are relatively few science fiction or fantasy books with the main character being an old person.
So when I got out of the military, I went back to school in biology, and earned a biology degree at the University of Texas, and then did some graduate work in it.
Other people, including me, have written books with main characters who were old and rich. Or old and brilliant. Old sages, old wizards, old rich people.
Now my mother, interestingly enough, was not a feminist in her own mind.
My personal feeling about science fiction is that it's always in some way connected to the real world, to our everyday world.
My first degree came years before my second. I had wanted to be a physicist, but I flunked calculus.
You can also make explicit certain social problems which, again, would be prejudged or not encountered at all in real life, because people have set up defenses against it. Fantasy allows you to get past defenses.