The torment of precautions often exceeds the dangers to be avoided. It is sometimes better to abandon one's self to destiny.
It is a peculiar sensation, this double-consciousness, this sense of always looking at one's self through the eyes of others, of measuring one's soul by the tape of a world that looks on in amused contempt and pity.
Suppose we were able to share meanings freely without a compulsive urge to impose our view or conform to those of others and without distortion and self-deception. Would this not constitute a real revolution in culture.
Well, the real Eric Bogosian is pretty self-conscious of himself.
We read deeply for varied reasons, most of them familiar: that we cannot know enough people profoundly enough; that we need to know ourselves better; that we require knowledge, not just of self and others, but of the way things are.
The Iraqis are not threatened by the Turks or by the Iranians or by the Saudis and they tell me that these are not weapons of mass destruction, they are weapons of self-destruction.
To ignore one's spiritual self is unsettling, to say the least. That's a very profound outlook on it.
It is the paradox of life that the way to miss pleasure is to seek it first. The very first condition of lasting happiness is that a life should be full of purpose, aiming at something outside self.
It's not only the most difficult thing to know one's self, but the most inconvenient.
The United Nations charter gives every nation the right to self defence, therefore when the American embassies were bombed it was a matter of time before the Americans responded by going for what they suspected were the causes of the attack.
Punishment may make us obey the orders we are given, but at best it will only teach an obedience to authority, not a self-control which enhances our self-respect.
It is very hard to separate one's self from a character. Sometimes the people closest to me have to be very understanding.
Never chain your dogs together with sausages. One must accustom one's self to be bored.
Self-acceptance has been a blessed by-product of middle age.
A complete life may be one ending in so full an identification with the oneself that there is no self left to die.