You know, I grew up with brothers so I'm used to being the only girl.
While it is challenging working with a kid, because they're so of the moment all the time. My acting style is to try to take something from my life that the character can relate to and that I can relate the character to.
It's not always thankless. Let's face it - it's not always thankless. I've gotten a lot of really great recognition and I've worked with amazing people.
It's not that I don't see myself as hot and sexy. Don't get me wrong. No, it's not that.
It's that I'm 39. I feel hot and sexy, actually... I feel it inside myself. I don't feel dried up and tired and no longer interested in sex is what I'm trying to say.
Shame is such an intense emotion. It just can drive you.
Some of the best roles are for women in these independent, smaller movies.
Sometimes when you do a part, the wall between you and the characters can be very porous. You can sort of move in and out of your character's persona and being. And that just couldn't happen on this one because of working with him.
We do spend time talking about it and we puzzle through it together. We ride the roller coasters together - the high highs and the low lows.
I do it because I want to exercise people's compassion and I do it because I really believe that for some reason what I do is important and meaningful.
It's easier in some ways being on the life raft and the other guy's in the boat and you can row alongside and be supportive. In some ways, that's an easier role.
Ultimately, you know, I'm a grown-up, I've been in this business a long time. I've got kids. I've got to do my stuff. But I also need to keep it there so I can bring it up again the next day at work or whatever.
Also everyone's hearts are in the right place when you do a small movie. You're not doing it for the money; you're not doing it for the possibility of an Oscar nomination. You are doing it because you love the material.
After 14 years, it better be a real marriage, you know? We do have a great time together. We are really lucky.
I've always been able to let stuff go when I'm done with work.